You know how its okay for guys to keep their sneakers on during sex but us women are only allowed to wear heels? Yeah you know the image of sexy that society has bashed into our heads. You know a man will say it’s sexy seeing the foot arched in the heel, but ummm why can’t my sneakers be sexy. I mean they are sexy to me- the leather, the craftsmanship, and shoot, sometimes the money I have paid on them.
I know most men will frown upon me wanting to keep sneakers on during sex. They already say a woman exudes a sexiness when she walks into the room with heels on and her head held high. But I exude sexiness in whatever I have on especially some sneakers because I know I won’t typically lose my balance. Sexiness is from the inside, that only commanding a room crap with heels on came from men who don’t wear heels. I mean if you wear heels on the regular do you- I even own some. I can own a room in anything on my feet and if I am around a man who knows sneakers, that will engage him.
You walk in a room with heels on how many men- who you are interested in- will start a decent conversation because of your heels. He may say “Oh I see you with the Red Bottoms” or something dumb like that. Maybe even say how your legs look with the heels. But if I walk in in my sneakers, he is going to complement them, ask me about them, ask how many pair I have, acknowledge my height or he may want to discuss the sneaker industry in regards to pricing or the sneakers history. Yeah you think he is going to think I am the homegirl because of my shoes but if anything he will think that because of my personality with or without heels. I can offer him homegirl or I can offer the same thing you’re offering him minus the heels. Who is owning the room, you or the sneakers?